Hi Azure,
I'm glad you had a good time on your date! No need to decide anything on the attraction level or if you're ready - it's early for that. But it's great to get out, meet new people and talk openly & honestly. I sometimes think it would do me a world of good to get some honest attention from another guy even for only a couple of hours...

I agree that H is probably quite busy w/ lots on his mind. Would it be out of order to send him an email, or leave a vm and say you're thinking of him & is there anything you can do? I ask because I seem to remember him offering you comfort & support during your dad's illness. If H were just a friend, wouldn't you check in quickly to see how they were doing & if you could help in any way?

Many hugs,
-H2H