Hi Azure ~
I am not sure what I would do about the service for BIL if I were you. I guess I am still somewhat of a "conflict avoider" so I am not sure I would want to put myself throuh that!!
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Like H still has so much power to make me feel bad or good. But I really think I am beginning to detach from that.

After a while H will no longer have that power over you....that is a really good feeling to look forward to!!

PS...congrats on your last C appt!! I am meeting my C for coffee next week. We have kept in touch and I look forward to catching up with her on a different level!!

Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)