Me: 44 H: 41 (Living) Together: Five years Married: Two years Been working on DBing since last September, maybe putting together a friendship? H was great when my dad died two months ago (although not completely straightforward with me that he has a new GF), and now his brother has committed suicide and we've been talking -- mostly on the phone, as he seems to feel reluctant (?) to see me in person. I can't even conjecture what's going on in our R, and the D papers will arrive anytime this summer. Working on detaching, but with these tragic circumstances, the lines seem to getting even blurrier. Hey -- anyone seen my sense of humor? I know it's around somewhere!
