CeMar, let's start with the fact that you think it's all her fault. From the writings of CeMar:
Quote: My wife is very similar, men are too sex crazed. But for most of us, when we get married, we BOTH have HD, then the wife changes to LD, and then blames the guy. Huh?
Quote: Unfortunately, some women love a man's tool, and others really have little interest in it. Only the ones that LOVE that tool will actually have successful marriages. I have read the book about what men want women to know by B. DeAngilis, and it basically is the instruction manual for women to use. If your wife follows the manual, she will have a very successful marriage. I could give that book to my wife and say, read it and live it and we will have an incredible marriage. [The only problem is that she has no hope of ever being able to follow the instructions as she can not possibly change enough to do those things.
Quote: It really is quite simple, you just have to love sex and desire sex with your spouse. Unfortunately, almost half of all women are NOT really capable of being like this, and we are the unfortuante guys that married one of these women.
Quote: LD's by there own nature PREFER to be roomates, that is THE WHOLE problem.
Quote: The old Love Languages. People tend to give love in the way they want to recieve love. I have figured out that my love language is physical touch. I do not have a second love language like some do. Unfortuantely, my wifes love language is NOT physical touch. For a ND wife, physical touch is easily the hardest love language to learn if it is not your primary language. Sure, she cooks dinner, does the laundry, etc.., but these are only appreciated by me, they are not LOVE to me. If she wants to express love to me in a meaningful way, it must come through physical touch, which could be affection or sex. Nothing else will make any deposits in the love tank. Now I too must figure out her love language so that I can make deposits in her love tank.
