"Just do it" and the SSM book are for couples who are both scratching their heads trying to figure out where the libido went in one partner. I've only seen a few people on this board get results from SSM alone because it seems to assume that the relationship isn't in gridlock and that both be somewhat motivated and acknowledge the problem. Must of us guys have to resort to "deeper" issues by using PM. But what is funny is that Michelle actually uses lots of concepts in PM in SSM. It's just that pat advice like "just do it" seems to be what we all remember the most and it is much easier beat your LD partner with an idea like that.


Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright