Anyone care to identify what they are trying in their own crucibles? I am having a hard time to identify something I want to change. I am still stuck in the mindset of what to change about me that might make the wife want me. I really only have one change that really sticks out, to restore my self confidence, or grow some new ones, the old ones have been stomped on long enough. But what other changes should I concentrate on first, and how will any of this get me to my goal of having a lover? Or is this too fused? In other words, I don't seem to have a good direction to go, what have other people tryed and succeeded with.
