Cathy,

Just checking in. We seem to have the same questions in mind. Wish we had answers! I too see a desperate ow in both of our situations. Good grief! We didn't sign up for this. What could ow be thinking? That these men will be faithful? or Are they just that desparate/ needy?

I wish I had answers for us. This detachment feels pretty good!


When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.