Sorry I wasn't around this am. I was getting a new computer (at the office) and the set-up took forever! I've been swamped since then trying to get something done as I'll be out tomorrow.
ANYWAY! I'm sorry to hear that your H is being a butt. I'm with Water....If you don't feel like going home right away...don't. Go do something for you WITHOUT worrying how he will react, what he will think, etc....
I don't know what else to add since my H has pretty much had the same "convo" with me....you know, the old...."there's nothing here besides dd, how much do you want for CS, we need to get this D going, it's YOUR house", etc.....the whole thing!
It's exhausting to continually have bombs being dropped on us. It's very normal for you to feel the way you are feeling now. You have done an awesome job at DB'g and have shown your strength, endurance, self-reliance, patience....all of it!
He's in a mess of his own creation and he needs to get out of it all on his own. He may be acting like a child but he's a big boy. Sorry...I know I sound angry but this is where I have a hard time with the whole MLC stuff...it only gets you so far you know?
Anyway, please know that you are an awesome woman and a terrific mother. Treat yourself as such.
