So OW still is being a thorn in your H's side. Nothing you can do except zip those lips. Unless your H decides he has had enough of OW, it will remain a coaster for you. Just act like it doesn't bother you and be all happy even if your heart is breaking. You are the only one who can decide how long you are going to put up with his mess.
I have asked my H not to see me anymore or call or email. If it doesn't work out with OW, he just needs to be by himself until OW is out of his system. Then maybe we will have a chance to salvage our M, but as it is, it is not going to work for me. I can't have three people in an M. All he asked of me was not to put in for a job in Dallas, TX or to leave out of state. I told him that it would depend on S17 what university he will attend in 2005. If S17 decides to attend the university here in my state, then I can't leave, but if goes outside of the state, then I am free to bid on jobs somewhere else. My H has at least a year to think things through.
So, all I can do for you Cathy is pray that your H will have the strength to resist OW's pull.
