Holdingon said the same thing, the swing out, my gosh I'm finally seeing it to and expecting it...is that the same as no expectations?! Maybe it is because there have been times when he hasn't done this and it throws me for a loop. In the past after an inswing, he'd hit the bar and last night he came home after work, in fact that last few times we've had a good weekend together, he has had the outswing, but it didn't involve drinking.