Last night was great, fantastic, we had a great time! H loved his gift, we talked about some of the very things that I was complaining about yesterday, H not letting me in on his life, it was like a date with someone I hadn't seen in awhile, and we got caught up. I wasn't going to bring our son at all, H did once or twice, but other than that it was just US!!!! I really focussed on H and getting him to talk. So when he says we never talk, well that's just H saying "words" that really have no meaning.
H mentioned a concert that "he is supposed to go to" I said with who, H said OW..OW bought the tickets and wanted H to go with, but H said "I don't want to go with her" in a tone of voice that suggested it was out of the question. I told him what she could do with those tickets. I think H likes to bring OW up to just to get a reaction out of me. When we first started dating, he did this with W#2...so hopefully in time it will fade, like it did with W#2.
We ML once S4 went to bed, it was just a great evening! I thanked H for going to dinner and said that we needed to it more often. And really we do, it gives us time to "talk" and be together. So hopefully this will be the first of more dates. We haven't been out to dinner alone since March!
And, you know what, what I said about having a great weekend because H wasn't here, well that was baloney, I have a great time with H, too. We've had a great summer so far and I just need to focus on those great times!! Granted when H is around I do have to focus, focus and it can be work at times,. I think I’m more careful of wording things appropriately, keeping in mind M/V makes our time together a little more challenging. So when H isn’t around I find myself relaxing more, I don’t have to try so hard.
Hello and thank you all for your good thoughts! 
