Quote: why can’t I ask him anything, question him as to what he ‘s doing? I’m told that you have to just leave an MLC’er alone, not question them on their whereabouts, no pressure, but then how do I find out anything about his life? He has all these friends from work that I know of, yet H doesn’t share his work life with me nor did he before this all happened. I mean HOW do I find this stuff out?
I've been wondering this as well. I dont' know his work friends since he got this job about 6 months before the bomb but you're right.....HOW can we know anything about them? about their life? about their friends?
Quote: I’m trying to be upbeat all the time and I am finding I’m so much happier when H isn’t around. I’m trying to keep ALL my feelings inside and not share with H either, NOT until H’s is ready to talk to me…which could be never. This “crashing” thing that they do in MLC, well I don’t know if it’s going to happen with my H,
Same here! I feel I might be the one to "crash" though. I mean, how long can we continue to NOT say anything???
Sorry for the hijack Cathy.
I do think your anniversary gift for H is wonderful.
