Quote: Do I say something like H since it's our anniversary on Monday I thought maybe you and I could go out to dinner or to a movie or something, just the two of us, a date? And see how he responds.
Yes - or even better, just say "H, I got a sitter for Monday night and made some plans for us for dinner". Your H really needs to see that you care and that you put more effort into these plans than you did into the pork chops the other night And even though things aren't great right now, use the evening to reminisce about what HAS been good in your R in the past, and celebrate that. And buy your H something nice that you know he wants. Act As If, okay?
And even though things aren't great right now, use the evening to reminisce about what HAS been good in your R in the past, and celebrate that. And buy your H something nice that you know he wants. Act As If, okay?
