A few others have suggested that I point this out or "decide", but not sure if it will matter. I would think H KNOWS this is what he needs to do, or at least I'm getting the feeling that he KNOWS this is what he should do, but can't muster the courage to do it at this point.
I think my H is s-l-o-w-l-y awakening from his MLC fog...time will tell. H isn't drinking like he used to, in fact rarely, so when he visits OW the guilt is there especially since he's sober, and I think HE's even beginning to realize it's a deadend with OW. Just how to end it since OW isn't letting my H go when OW KNOWS H is married. I have added a prayer for OW to find a man who is not already taken to come into her life, praying for the OW to find her own happiness away from my H.
I did speak with H this morning and in a very upbeat tone said that "I missed him this weeend" and can anyone guess what he said??? Yep.."yeah right" BUT, I laughingly countered with "ya know you really need to think of something different to say, that's getting old"