Sorry I wasn't around to help with your anger too but my kids all have swimming lessons every morning. I am at the pool from 9:15 - 11:15.
We have softball on Monday and Tuesday evenings but that is almost done. The year end tournament in next weekend.
I love your list of positives. And remember, you don't know for sure if H ended up at OW's. And if he did, I am sure she guilted or coaxed or drank him into it - maybe all three.
Not that that is any excuse, but she is losing her battle and is probably pulling out all stops right about now. As you said, he hasn't been there for 3 weeks.
In fact, if he brings her up during one of his finer moments, I'd mention that to him. "You went without seeing her for 3 weeks and we had some great family times while during that time - let's continue to build our future as a family"
You amaze me with your patience and resolve. You deserve happiness and resolution. Your positives indicate to me that while the journey is slow, the outcome will be positive!
I'll keep praying for you Cathy!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
