Quote: Intuition says H is a no show tonight and I'm more than anything!
How about a 180 here - don't expect him, and plan to do something else - if he does show up, whoa - what a surprise for him
Quote: Maybe I need to get a life, back off and let H be, obviously the getting along is too much pressure for H!
Yes, yes, yes. In the past 2 days, after the meltdown on Sunday, I've found lots of things to keep me busy, left it for 5 mins before responding to NG's IM messages - boy has he turned up the pursuit!
Slowly 
