Quote: I'm thinking he needs some time... you just spent the whole weekend together. Let him swing out for a bit.
Yes we did spend the whole weekend together and why is it when he swings out he swing OW's way. Can't he stand the good time we had, that we can and do get along. Does he hate it that much that he has to run to OW to prove to himself he's this awful person. In looking back this is the pattern, we do something together have a good time and H swings out to OW. Maybe I need to get a life, back off and let H be, obviously the getting along is too much pressure for H!
Intuition says H is a no show tonight and I'm more than anything!