Quote: have been reading my mars/venus book, but am thinking the KLA tapes might be the next purchase. Do you have them and if so do you use them?
I’m glad you’re continuing to read M/V. I think it has a lot of useful information for those of us that are looking to learn new/better communication skills.
Yes, I have the KLA tapes. I listened to all of them but haven’t done so in a bit. They’re very good at reminding you techniques, giving encouragement, boosting your PMA (as in “You can do it”). I stopped listening to them because I felt that my sitch was hopeless and that the tapes are better suited for those of you in “Piecing” and because dd would tell me (while listening to them in car), “No mommy, not the lady! Put music on.”
BUT….I might start listening to them again. It’s given me a new “action-oriented” mindset and the strategies are useful in any R.
