One thing about this weekend does stick out as a positive or more that I'm "hearing or seeing" differently.
Because we don't have a vechile with room enough for four and able to pull a boat we ended up taking two vehicles. In my H's eyes it was dumb, yes it was dumb, but our only choice.
So we took off Friday after work in our two vehicles, H and S20 in truck w/boat-me and S4 in car and almost instantly were separated. (S4 DID NOT like that he couldn't ride with the boys either). Well I just felt this incredible loss, like we had been left behind, like a duckling who had lost it's mother. Well not too long after that H called to see if we were behind them and where we were and told me where he was and I caught up. It was a sad feeling not being together in the same vehicle as a family.
On the way home, we ended up losing each other once again..the duckling losing it's mother feelings comes back. S4 had to take a potty break. As I'm getting back up onto the highway H calls to see what happened, I explained and he told me where they were and then he offered to pull off and wait for us. I said okay and we hung up. I called H back to find out where they were and H said they decided not to wait for us. I just said that's fine we'll catch up to you. So not too long after that H calls again asks what mile marker I'm at, I tell him, he says he's about 10 miles ahead of us and tells me they'll pull off and wait and once again we are together.
So maybe H's taking two cars being "dumb" comment was him saying that he wished we were together traveling rather than separate.
We will, within the next year have a vehicle be it truck of SUV large enough to haul us all and a boat!
I did thank H twice for letting us catch up/waiting for us!
