Hi Minnie,

Yes we did go up north and had a great weekend.

I typed up my weekend events, thoughts, etc. and just think they're not worth posting. Not that we didn't have a great weekend and there were positives, lots of them, but nothing earth shattering.

For so long I've been posting the ups and downs of my sitch, well more the downs then the ups and now that things are on the upswing I don't feel the urgency to run to the BB every day or feel that I have anything worth posting. It's more journaling than anything else.

I also have to admit I have no idea what I'm doing anymore or where I'm trying to go . The OW is still in the picture somewhere, I don't know any details of that as H has been home for the last two weeks straight, well if not home then out fishing.

Since H hasn't come right out and said the words "I want to work on our marriage" I don't know what I can do at this point. Validate, show I care, appreciate, compassion, unconditional love those things I know how to do, but until H commits to the M I feel stuck. Until H says OW is history or will he say OW is history and how will I know when she is history I just float along.

Cathy