Hmm...going to the cabin for the weekend??? Make it memorable my dear. Hope you have a good time. Don't worry about OW...she is just a pimple on your H's head. She is bound to burst sooner or later ok. Your H is home and a lot more patience is required of you. I see alot of positives coming out of your H. Just validate and reinforce the good things that he does. when doubts starts to creep in my brain, my thoughts always go back to the Conway book that says, if a wife can roll with the punches, then the M will have a greater chance of survival. It really takes a lot of patience from the wife to survive the H's MLC. So, go put on a happy face and enjoy the weekend...kapish!!!