Quote: I've been reading the Mars/Venus book and what an eye opener. Makes me realize how much I must have hurt H in the past. I'm learning though, I'm learning how to communicate with a Martian, I'm absorbing the book.
This book really made a difference in how I viewed H. I do not condone his behavior but I can SEE how I contributed to the bomb. I can SEE how I hurt him in many different ways over the years.
Quote: I just really feel for H today, I feel his pain. I know he's having a hard time, yet H would never let me or anybody in on his pain.
Unfortunately there isn't much we can do to alleviate their pain. Just continue to be his friend.