Well I called and left a vm for H. Saying I was calling to see how his day was going and that technically he should be done with work by now (what with him leaving two hours early this morning) and that I hoped he was managing to stay awake.
I just really feel for H today, I feel his pain. I know he's having a hard time, yet H would never let me or anybody in on his pain.
I've been reading the Mars/Venus book and what an eye opener. Makes me realize how much I must have hurt H in the past. I'm learning though, I'm learning how to communicate with a Martian, I'm absorbing the book.