Let’s post some positives if that’s what you want to call them.
H’s mood last night was that of an irritating teenager, that’s the only way I can describe it.
H made some comment about OW, which he’s been does here and there, throwing in digs, things to get me going. After a certain comment last night I called him an *SS-he was—and said why did you say that!? H – I don’t know, just to irritate you.
Our S made a negative comment about my Sis and I told S that we don’t talk about people like that, that it hurts Aunt’s feelings when you say that and people come in all shapes and sizes and I looked up to see H (with his beer gut) “smirking” in the mirror at our S, like he thought it was funny too. H instantly recovered and agreed with me.
S was laying with H in bed and S was supposed to be coming down from his day and I hear them both laughing and H is in their tickeling him and when I walk in the room they both look at me, like they are the same age.
Okay maybe these aren’t positives, just the mindset of a 50 year old man and normal behavior for my H or an H in MLC. Although it hasn’t been showing lately, in fact it’s been quite a while.
H was very playful last night, like a boy who likes a girl. Doesn’t know how to just be nice so has to do little irritating things..actually they did make me laugh.
H did finish weedwacking the lawn for me, I started but didn’t finish—no arm power to get it started the second time around. I thanked him and told him he does a better job than I do.
H told me he would more than likely be fishing the next two nights, too. We’ll see.
