Grislen, this is the kind of crap my W sometime spouts. When I ask her where she gets such info, she looks at me and says something like, "I've done the research." I called her bluff once and asked her to provide me with some articles or books that supported her theory (it was about some other issue, about paternalism, I think) and she NEVER provided me with anything. So, ask her wife where she gets her info from. Then, go onto some lesbian web site and ask for some testimony from lesbians with long time partners about their sex lives. I bet you'll prove her wrong.
