Quote: She then asked me would I eat worms to make our relationship better. I said I might but we aren't talking about something that is disgusting.
Good answer, Lee! My W pulled the same thing on me, but It was something like "would you stick needles in your eyes if I thought it would make the relationship better?" Of course the answer is multipart: 1) I didn't enter into a relationship that presupposes that the two parties will mutilate themselves as part of being in the relationship; 2) if sex for you is equal (or close) to sticking needles in your eyes, then we need to get you to a doctor; 3) if sex for you is equal emotionally to sticking needles in your eyes, we need to get to a psychologist; and 4) if I had been told prior to marrying you that I would be expected to participate in needles stuck in my eyes, and married you anyway, then yes, I'd stick them in my eyes. (But, more than likely, I would have said "I do...not" at the altar.)
It's not like we're just here for the sex, but dang, it is a reasonable expectation.
