I have talked with her about this at one point in time she wanted to go. Now she feels that she doesn't have a problem. So she really doesn't want to go forcing the issue to go to counsling when she doesn't want to go is pretty much moot.
I thought it was kinda funny on saturday I had to put a new sink into our middle bathroom. By the way plumbing SUCKS. So while I am doing this my W is helping every now and again. I say to her so lets make love tonight. Me think that would be the perfect way to end the night of frustration. To my suprise my W said I think you deserve it so yeah we will. She thinks I deserver it you bet I do even if I wouldn't have replaced the sink I deserve IT. So finally get stuff done I tell her Im heading to bed about 1 am she says she will be up a little later and will wake me up. Well she never woke me up. Not that I was suprised becuase her promises in this area are not promises at all.
So now im going about a month without. The talking about it and my wants doesn't seem to be working so I have some very hard choices to make.
