Yes I have tried to rectify the issues that I know of from my W. I believe that she really does not know what she wants and how to get it. She doesn't want me to be controlling but doesn't want to do things herself. Kind of a catch 22 in my opnion I really want to have her needs met. Becuase she deserves to have them met.
I do know that she uses sex as a weapon and that is the reason I will no longer perticapate<sp> in it. I will still try to iniate but will no longer let her rejection affect me. If it keeps up even though she knows for a fact that I need to make love I will have to move on there is really no other choice at that point.
