Yes I have made it very well known why I would like to make love. I have had the talk and the talk and the other talk. Her LL as far as I can tell are Acts of service and quality time. I have done the acts of service by getting a baby sitter taking her out to dinner being very responsive to conversation. Really being very available to her needs for quality time. I do not badger her every day or even every other day about ML It seems like it on here becuase that is what I vent about. She knows that im hurting but can't seem to find a way to meet me in the middle and tell me what she needs. When I ask those type of questions she says she needs a new car and house and this and that. I can never drill down low enough to get at what she wants or needs besides out side things. I either have not found the correct wording or what ever it is but things seem to be at a stalemate. Right now my thoughts are kind of jumbled more to come.
