And Lee... do you tell your W that you are wild about her, she makes you crazy, you want to be able to come up behind her and whisper dirty things in her ear? Or whatever it is you REALLY see a fulfilling sex life as? That you really can't live without being bonded to her? That it is not just sex for you but a fulfillment of being one flesh with her? Have you made her understand just what sex means to you? Cause she may be thinking, hey a hand j*b will do the same trick for him, why doesn't he satisfy himself?
H never said any of this to me, until last week. Never did he try to verbalize just how important it was to him. Mind you... I did not give him much opportunity, but he was very confrontation avoiding.
Maybe you should grow some balls and lay it all out there, after you show her in her LL just how much you LOVE her, then you can show her just how crazy about her you are.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
