Well I decided that I would talk with my W yesterday I was in a very good mood and she seemed to be ok also. So yesterday night at about 9:00 pm I told her that I needed to talk to her. I told her that I would like to make love 2 times a week. Her response was why are you talking about this again. I don't want to fight about this. I then said that I don't want to fight about this either. That this is very important to me and to how the marriage works for me. She did not say another word about it. She was just quite. After about 5 mins of this she got up and went to the shower to get ready for work.
I think it will take a while to get it through to her that I will not give up on this. If I have to talk to her once a week for the next 3 months I will do it.
With the convo I was very calm and in a good mood after word. This time she at least didn't stomp off up stairs. So maybe that is progress .
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