Quote: How very interesting... we are married to each other but we are in completely different relationships.
That's what fusion and lack of intimacy will get you. Recall in one part of PM, when it was discovered that one partner's perception of whether a particular encounter had been intimate could be affected by the other's perception, even after the fact! I.e. he was able (because of fusion) to "ruin" her memory of an event retroactively. Perception is everything, unless, of course, the two are "in synch", and connected, and sharing intimately...
