I agree with you there, Barn. She IS telling me something with her refusal to respond.
As far as deciding if I'm willing to live with someone who won't respond to me - yes I am. Because of my religious beliefs, because of my kids, and because of my own personal values, I will be staying. If W chooses not to participate in the M, so be it. But that doesn't mean I can't keep trying to change things. At some point I MAY give up, decide that things will never change and that I might as well just learn to live with it - but I'm not there yet.
