I hate to bring up the C thing...but it's my point of reference since it's so crucial in my sitch right now. I did have to put my foot down with my LDH. Up until that point he kept telling me that he was going to fix things...and everytime I would ask how he planned to do that I got "I don't know!"...along with that was inaction, he didn't try to do anything and I know whatever I would try was going to be interpreted as pressure/nagging. My gut told me though that a good thereapist would be able to get through to him, fortunately for me I was correct. He did at least get a lightbulb...now it's a matter of seeing if we can change the behavior.
