I wanted to ask alot of questions of her at the time but about that time she got up and started getting ready for work so that was end of the convo.
Tim that is where im coming from that is where the very diffecult decision is to come in. I either get on with this thing and stay in a marriage that is sexless. Or is say its time for me to move on and get a D.
The thing I did this time with this talk was stay very calm I wasn't angry after this. So Im slowly removing her hand from the jewels.
I think she thinks I will let it drop now but I will not do this. I think there will be some bumps coming up. She will either get with the program or we will be seperating. I think this sunday night will be a good time to ask her to do these things so we can gain more intimacy. That is really what I want. I want to be able to grope my W with out her think im some freak who only wants sex.