Quote: She said" well I have already told you that you should go find some one to have that."
Ouch!!! I'm so sorry she said that. It hurts me to hear others say that to people who love them. For me the marital bed is a cornerstone of my marriage. One of the reasons you marry someone is because that's the person you want to share your bed with, ML to, etc. She's in a very defensive place right now...she has no idea what happiness/pleasure she's missing out on.
