Lee, maybe you should ask your W why you should stay married to HER, if you'd be getting "it" somewhere else? What does W give you that's so all-powerful you could be having S with other(s?) but still want to stay married? I can't imagine ANYTHING, unless she's got some dirt on you, but blackmail is a BAD reason to stay married. What I'm saying is you need to arrange for her to wonder why you should stick around. Really wonder. And doubt. And fear. At the moment, she's got ya by the "pair" you claim to own, and she's not lettin' go anytime soon. Time to grow another pair...
