I finally grew a couple and decided to have a talk with my W. I'm not very good at putting this down in black and white but I will give you guys my best shot.
So we were watching TV Last night I decided I would talk to her about the lack of intimacy and sex. Well it didn't work that well but this is what I said. "I think that you need to try and become more sexual." "I think that would help the marriage" She said" well why don't you become less sexual" At this point in time I know that I opened wrong. " I told her that I have, that I do not get sexual nearly as often as I need." She said" well I have already told you that you should go find some one to have that." I said " well that won't work. becuase I don't want anyone else. " She said " well im ok with what I am and im not changing."
After this there were a couple of other things but much more not of much intrest.
Now I have a big choice to make. Im not really sure where to go from here if I just leave it alone she won't change im pretty sure if I push it she won't either.
