Hi Slowly, if you are willing to post part of that last email from NG to OW, I for one would be grateful to gain insight from it. My H isn't as far along as NG, but he similarly struggles with feelings for both me and OW (crazy as it seems to me, but that's how it is).

Also, congratulations....I'm sure there's a long journey ahead still, but I agree with the others that being copied on both emails is a very good sign.

GBO