I would be VERY encouraged by his attempts to include you with that letter. That sounds like a man who knows what you need from him to heal and to heal with him in the picture...
I have to say WAY TO GO to NG, because I think he's making a step in your direction.
I know you really don't care about how OW feels (justifiably), but I think it speaks volumes about your H. I would find it really hard to reconcile your term NICE GUY with one who didn't behave that way?
It sounds as though he's pretty consistent with it.... in some regards. Not that I think taking OW in the first place is nice. But that's a story for another time.
Awesome!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
