Hi Slowly, I've been thinking about you...interesting comments from taz and maya....It also certainly weighs heavily on m y mind that H continues to do something he knows is so hurtful to me (continued phone calls and contact), and maya's comment also rang a bell about winning meaning coming in last. I swear our H's sound so very much alike....Mine has said "I don't see what the big deal is here" when I bring it up...
Keep being strong and patient Slowly, I truly believe you will have the option of rebuilding with NG, and that OW will become a piece of history in your lives. I "feel" it in my bones