Hi KAW - Yes indeed, this is a tough one. NG is opening up though. I find that the more clearly I express my hurt, the more receptive he seems to be to sharing his own feelings. Weird. Not at all what I expected.
But, contact still continues. Another week rolls by.
In the meantime, a schoolfriend and I are planning a BIG party - our joint 40th bash. I'm really looking forward to this.
Now, I must go catch up with friends here. Been pre-occupied lately. Slowly