Hi everyone - Been finding it difficult to post lately - partly due to the confusion, and partly just plain busy.
We had an ok weekend, had another R talk. NG tells me he feels guilty about OW, that he has 'messed up' her life, hence the continued contact per her request is the least he can do for her.
Not sure what this means for me. He insists it is just phone calls and emails, and that the intensity is waning. That he is spending far more effort on our relationship.
I'm finding a lot of resentment surfacing within me. Not good. His sense of who he is being unfair to seems out of whack to me.
Slowly 
