I am glad to read your most recent posts, Slowly. Your perspective seems to be softening... and that is good. I think you have made great headway into NG's fears that letting OW go will make him fall prey to ...your wrath?....his guilt?....
Your understanding that the objective reality... the present... is really quite pleasant, is a wonderful revelation. I am glad you have arrived here. I think if you can get a handle on your anxieties during those times he lapses, it will be huge. You two seem close to the home stretch.
