Hi Pam - I know, this healing phase too requires a lot of patience. Slowly...
We are having better days. Mostly I think because NG's internal conflict seems to be far less. I honestly think his emotions are not engaged with OW anymore, it does not feel like that anymore. It just also feels like his emotions are not with me either, though he is a LOT more considerate ad present. Maybe it is time to re-set my expectations, again
He is definitely leaving for work later, and coming home earlier these days.
Slowly 
