I know that dilemma well. And only you will be able to determine whether or not what he can give you is enough for you in the long run.
I hope he sees the benefit of opening up to you. It creates intimacy and fosters better communication and understanding between spouses. I wish I understood why more people are unwilling to let their defenses down to do this? Hey, I know I'm guilty of erecting walls, but nothing would help me knock them down more than a healthy dose of honesty.
I just posted up at Maya's place too. There's a reason we're all here...
Big hugs and have a great weekend. My parents are heading your way later today...
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."