Yes, he will need shoring up, but then am I not making it easy for him to continue down the path of destructive self indulgence? Looking back, I think one of the problems is that I did not recognise his need to be exposed to my pain.
Without over-doing it, I need to keep my hurt fresh in his mind, so that the motivation to NOT be hurtful stays high. He **says** he thought I was handling things OK. Wonder what he thought all those months of tears were about?
Wonder what he thought all those months of tears were about?
