I am sorry to hear that there is still so much contact. I had hoped it would start winding down more as you moved into your new home and continued your reconnection.
Does he say what he sees as the two of you's future and see her exiting it anytime soon? You may have posted that and I don't remember. I don't think my memory is what it used to be prior to the stress and AD's.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"