It has been a difficult Saturday, with the discovery that NG and OW had 3 hour phone conversation on Friday. This morning, I managed to collect myself, and had a calm conversation with him
Started by saying that I still loved him, and can see us having a good relationship despite the history of the past 9 months, but a future that included such intense contact with OW was not something I could cope with.
He asked me if I was issuing him with an ultimatum, and I skirted the point blank question by re-iterating that I now know what I can live with, and what would be too painful for me to cope with.
We are both travelling on business tomorrow, separately. Armed truce is the likely prognosis for the rest of today. I hate these confrontations, but guys, to be honest, I don't think I had much choice.
Slowly
