Journaling Tuesday

Positives
+ Over breakfast, NG was quizzing me about conversation I'd had previous evening with SIL - she was on a guilt trip about autistic nephew, and I was just validating. NG posed an interesting question - why am I good at validating everyone, except him? Why do I always challenge him? I see this as a positive because he is providing feedback in a positive manner. I like not having to guess what I have to work on...
+ he continues to draw little pictures on paintbrush and emailing them to me - got one of me in a bikini (something I've been planning to get for a while) - must have taken him ages to draw
+ he came home early, we worked for a bit, then cleaned the deck, swum a little and went shopping for a new kettle and some mugs. nice ho-hum evening


Negatives
- still no response to my email. its like he is trying to avoid the issue altogather - how do i get him to understand that the questions warrant an answer
- looking at his movement profile, communications with OW is still heated and frequent - ah well


Guys, your feedback really helps bring into clearer focus the dynamics here. Thanks.

Slowly


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